I was trying to think what to comment (comments are so much harder than listening in real time). There's so much here to lean in to. What came was the wave metaphor, (wish, wash gahhhh brilliant) and the difference when being pummeled by wave after wave of flailing and struggling vs releasing all tension and effort and letting the wave tumble and roll you. Without the resistance, you get to experience the cycle of ups and the downs. And you're ready to take a breath when the lulls come. Look at the wisdom in this post--you've got this, you're finding the path through step by step. All you have to do is this moment. Love you. Text me anytime.
Well damn, or as Grandma would say to keep it kosher, “Hoover Dam”.
I am so sorry June has not lightened up. And May was not kind. Sigh Thank you for sharing. Your openness is very helpful for me. This non binary thing is a slippery - I first put hard, but hard is easier to hold onto - concept for me to fully grasp. I can be so all or none. Learning to just acknowledge “it’s” presence in a non reactionary way is, some days, very tough. I do love your water and wave metaphors. Very helpful. If I could just remember to body surf the waves versus fighting them! Sing along with Anna - Let it flow…
Thank you for sharing. I’m here for the silly and the hard. ❤️
I was trying to think what to comment (comments are so much harder than listening in real time). There's so much here to lean in to. What came was the wave metaphor, (wish, wash gahhhh brilliant) and the difference when being pummeled by wave after wave of flailing and struggling vs releasing all tension and effort and letting the wave tumble and roll you. Without the resistance, you get to experience the cycle of ups and the downs. And you're ready to take a breath when the lulls come. Look at the wisdom in this post--you've got this, you're finding the path through step by step. All you have to do is this moment. Love you. Text me anytime.
Well damn, or as Grandma would say to keep it kosher, “Hoover Dam”.
I am so sorry June has not lightened up. And May was not kind. Sigh Thank you for sharing. Your openness is very helpful for me. This non binary thing is a slippery - I first put hard, but hard is easier to hold onto - concept for me to fully grasp. I can be so all or none. Learning to just acknowledge “it’s” presence in a non reactionary way is, some days, very tough. I do love your water and wave metaphors. Very helpful. If I could just remember to body surf the waves versus fighting them! Sing along with Anna - Let it flow…